It's not uncommon for imprisoned serial killers to receive letters from fascinated female admirers. But for the admirer to actually meet the murderer, fall in love and say “I do”? Most women would run the other way. However, sometimes a lover’s brutal past does not deter a woman from standing by their man. Here are the stories of ten women who were wooed by ten deadly men.


10. Rosalie Martinez Married Oscar Ray Bolin Jr.

Oscar Ray Bolin Jr. was tried and found guilty 10 separate times for the 1986 murders of Natalie Blanche Holley (age 25); Stephanie Collins (17); and Teri Lynn Matthews (26). While awaiting his execution date, Bolin was labeled as especially dangerous and a flight risk. Prior to his first murder trial, Bolin concocted an elaborate escape plan that involved kidnapping and holding hostage the relatives of the Hillsborough Sheriff and high-ranking sheriff's officials.

He married Rosalie Martinez, a socially prominent Tampa woman who acted as a member of his defense team for over a decade. Martinez had left her prominent attorney-husband and four young daughters to marry Bolin. A television audience of 12 million watched their wedding in 1996. It wasn't exactly a traditional ceremony.

She was in her apartment in Gainesville and he was in the county jail as they read out their vows over speakerphone at her apartment while she wore a wedding dress. There was a framed photo of Bolin to compensate for his absence. As newlyweds, they met every Saturday in the cafeteria of the state prison in Starke, Florida where they kissed, hugged and held hands.

On her visit days, Martinez would be escorted by armed guards to see her husband. She later said this made her feel as if she “was going in to see Hannibal Lector.” On the day of his execution, Bolin spent three hours with his wife.

9. Doreen Lioy Married Richard ‘The Nightstalker’ Ramirez

Ramirez's highly publicized home invasion crime spree terrorized the residents of the greater Los Angeles area and later the residents of the San Francisco area from June 1984 until August 1985.

He was found guilty of 13 counts of murder, 5 attempted murders, 14 burglaries, and 11 sexual assaults. His crimes were especially sadistic and brutal and he claimed to be a Satanist. 

Beginning in 1985, Doreen Lioy, a former magazine editor, wrote him nearly 75 letters during his incarceration over an 11-year period. In 1988, Ramirez proposed to Lioy, and on October 3, 1996, they were married in California's San Quentin State Prison. For many years before Ramirez's death,

Lioy stated that she would commit suicide when Ramirez was executed. She was lonely in the years following the marriage as her family broke off communication with her upon the announcement of their engagement. In 2013, Ramirez died of complications from B-cell lymphoma while awaiting execution on California's death row at age 53.

8. Christine Kizuka Married Angelo Buono Jr.

Alongside his cousin Kenneth Bianchi, Angelo Buono Jr. became known as “The Hillside Strangler.” The pair were convicted of killing ten young women (ages 12 to 28) in Los Angeles, California between the short time span of October 1977 and February 1978.

During the months they were on their spree, Bianchi applied for a job with the L.A. Police Department and was along for several rides with officers while they searched for the Hillside Stranglers.

Bianchi was eventually questioned by police and testified against Buono, leading to his arrest and the end of a terrifying time for the citizens of Los Angeles.

Christine Kizuka, a mother of three and a supervisor at the California State Employment Development Department, married Buono in 1986 at Folsom Prison, California.

The couple met when Kizuka was visiting her husband in the same prison, and following her divorce, she began a relationship with the murderer. He died of a heart attack in 2002 at the age of 67.