It's not uncommon for imprisoned serial killers to receive letters from fascinated female admirers. But for the admirer to actually meet the murderer, fall in love and say “I do”? Most women would run the other way. However, sometimes a lover’s brutal past does not deter a woman from standing by their man. Here are the stories of ten women who were wooed by ten deadly men.


10. Rosalie Martinez Married Oscar Ray Bolin Jr.

Oscar Ray Bolin Jr. was tried and found guilty 10 separate times for the 1986 murders of Natalie Blanche Holley (age 25); Stephanie Collins (17); and Teri Lynn Matthews (26). While awaiting his execution date, Bolin was labeled as especially dangerous and a flight risk. Prior to his first murder trial, Bolin concocted an elaborate escape plan that involved kidnapping and holding hostage the relatives of the Hillsborough Sheriff and high-ranking sheriff's officials.

He married Rosalie Martinez, a socially prominent Tampa woman who acted as a member of his defense team for over a decade. Martinez had left her prominent attorney-husband and four young daughters to marry Bolin. A television audience of 12 million watched their wedding in 1996. It wasn't exactly a traditional ceremony.

She was in her apartment in Gainesville and he was in the county jail as they read out their vows over speakerphone at her apartment while she wore a wedding dress. There was a framed photo of Bolin to compensate for his absence. As newlyweds, they met every Saturday in the cafeteria of the state prison in Starke, Florida where they kissed, hugged and held hands.

On her visit days, Martinez would be escorted by armed guards to see her husband. She later said this made her feel as if she “was going in to see Hannibal Lector.” On the day of his execution, Bolin spent three hours with his wife.

9. Doreen Lioy Married Richard ‘The Nightstalker’ Ramirez

Ramirez's highly publicized home invasion crime spree terrorized the residents of the greater Los Angeles area and later the residents of the San Francisco area from June 1984 until August 1985.

He was found guilty of 13 counts of murder, 5 attempted murders, 14 burglaries, and 11 sexual assaults. His crimes were especially sadistic and brutal and he claimed to be a Satanist. 

Beginning in 1985, Doreen Lioy, a former magazine editor, wrote him nearly 75 letters during his incarceration over an 11-year period. In 1988, Ramirez proposed to Lioy, and on October 3, 1996, they were married in California's San Quentin State Prison. For many years before Ramirez's death,

Lioy stated that she would commit suicide when Ramirez was executed. She was lonely in the years following the marriage as her family broke off communication with her upon the announcement of their engagement. In 2013, Ramirez died of complications from B-cell lymphoma while awaiting execution on California's death row at age 53.

8. Christine Kizuka Married Angelo Buono Jr.

Alongside his cousin Kenneth Bianchi, Angelo Buono Jr. became known as “The Hillside Strangler.” The pair were convicted of killing ten young women (ages 12 to 28) in Los Angeles, California between the short time span of October 1977 and February 1978.

During the months they were on their spree, Bianchi applied for a job with the L.A. Police Department and was along for several rides with officers while they searched for the Hillside Stranglers.

Bianchi was eventually questioned by police and testified against Buono, leading to his arrest and the end of a terrifying time for the citizens of Los Angeles.

Christine Kizuka, a mother of three and a supervisor at the California State Employment Development Department, married Buono in 1986 at Folsom Prison, California.

The couple met when Kizuka was visiting her husband in the same prison, and following her divorce, she began a relationship with the murderer. He died of a heart attack in 2002 at the age of 67.

7. Shirlee Joyce Book Married Kenneth Bianchi

Kenneth Bianchi is the other half of “The Hillside Stranglers” duo. These cousins cruised around Los Angeles in Buono's car and lured their victims in with fake badges, persuading gullible young women that they were undercover police officers.

They killed ten women using this method, driving them to Buono’s home to torture and murder them. In addition to the ten women and girls he murdered alongside Angelo Buono Jr., Bianchi killed two more women after moving to Washington by himself.

In an attempt to obtain a reduced sentence, Bianchi agreed to testify against Buono. However, in giving his testimony, Bianchi made every effort to be as uncooperative and self-contradictory as possible, apparently hoping to avoid being the ultimate cause of Buono's conviction. In the end, Bianchi's efforts were unsuccessful. Buono was convicted and sentenced to life imprisonment. Bianchi, too, is currently serving a sentence of life imprisonment in Washington State Penitentiary.

In 1989, he exchanged vows with Shirlee Joyce Book at Washington State Penitentiary. It was a very short ceremony, lasting only fifteen minutes. Strangely enough, the newlyweds had the opportunity to pose for pictures for the National Enquirer. Bianchi’s parents, two of Bianchi’s inmate friends and Book’s mother were witness to the wedding.

Book and Bianchi had become pen pals and spoke on the phone several times before they married, but had only met face-to-face once—the day before their wedding ceremony. They are still married today.

6. Anna Eriksson and Tammi Ruth Saccoman Married Lyle and Erik Menendez

The Menendez Brothers were convicted in 1994 for the 1989 shotgun murders of their wealthy parents, entertainment executive José Menéndez and his wife, Mary.

The brothers were not considered suspects at first as they had an alibi in a group of friends they went to the movies with immediately after committing the crime. But suspicions about their involvement arose when they began to spend money lavishly after the murders.

They attempted to deflect blame for the murders by claiming they had suffered abuse from their parents their whole lives. They were first tried separately, but both juries deadlocked, which resulted in a mistrial. For the second trial, they were tried together and found guilty. The brothers were sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole.

Lyle married former model Anna Eriksson in July of 1996, but they divorced on April 1, 2001 when she discovered he had “cheated” on her with other female pen pals. Two years later, Lyle married his second wife, Rebecca Sneed, whom he had known for ten years before the engagement.

On June 12, 1999, Erik married Tammi Ruth Saccoman at Folsom State Prison in a prison waiting room. The couple had a Twinkie as a substitute for their wedding cake. Tammi later stated: “It was a wonderful ceremony until I had to leave. That was a very lonely night.” Speaking about the murders, Tammi said, “I do know the person Erik is. I do know what happened that night and I believe that within everybody, in certain circumstances, you will be able to kill somebody. But I do know Erik is a very good person.”

In an October 2005 interview with ABC News, Saccoman described her relationship with Erik as “something that I've dreamed about for a long time. And it's just something very special that I never thought that I would ever have.” In this interview, Tammi also said that she and her daughter drive 150 miles every weekend to visit Erik.

Erik has stated that Tammi is what gets him through thoughts of his endless life sentence—“I can't think about the sentence. When I do, I do it with a great sadness and a primal fear …It's so frightening I just haven't come to terms with it.”